There was once a little boy who excitedly told his mom that he had just measured himself and he was six feet tall. Smiling at her little boy, the mother asked him to measure himself again while she watched. And the little boy used a 6-inch ruler, measure that he was six rulers tall and proclaimed again that he was six feet tall! We often do the same thing. We judge ourselves by a different standard then we judge other by... When you judge anther, You do not define them, You define yourself...