outlaw: I'm not sure i agree with this part btw. I think feeding any kind of sexual urge in a safe legal way is the healthier way to keep it in check. Repressing said feeling is what leads to crime i think.
If repression was such a good idea, you'd think that all those countries with all those laws based around sexual repression (females must be fully clothed and such) would be rape-free safe havens for women. But we know it's actually the other way around.
Now rape is also a despicable crime. Yet so many adults have sexual urges centered around rape, and a lot of them feed these urges through consensual non-consent roleplay and shxt like that. We don't ask them to stop feeding those abnormal urges, do we?