[My post was deleted for being "off topic" and that really annoyed me. I mean it was on topic, and i can point out posts from every topic that are far more random and never get deleted. In some topics people literally start chatting like it's an inbox and nothing's done about it. Which is the way an active forum should be i think. "on topic" is such an arbitrary term. A topic is a dynamic, fluid thing. It goes all over the place and comes back all the time. Anyway, can't argue with the mods. So I thought i would post what was deleted in a topic of its own. That way it can't be called "off topic", because THIS is the topic. Problem solved.] If i was a decent person, i wouldn't judge anyone. Addiction is also considered a disorder, so i don't think it's fair to judge drug addicts either. Or the young generation. Or a mother who doesn't cook dinner for her family. Or "bad" parents. I would mind my own life and not draw conclusions about other people's lives from something they said or after talking to them for a few minutes. But i'm not a decent person. I'm only a human bean. So i judge people. I don't laugh at obese people. I just judge them silently. Then i go online and write lengthy rants about fat people. I also add made up anecdotes to my stupid rants because i feel that makes them more believable. Like the one about the imaginary obese guy Gopal and his enabling mother. I don't know any Gopal but the beauty of the internet is that i can claim to be an astronaut and a brain surgeon who likes sky diving and sings opera and people will have to take my word for it. p.s. you don't have to add anything to this. It's not a very intelligent topic i admit. It doesn't preach morals, doesn't tell you how to live your lives. You probably strongly disagree with the views expressed here. I just expect that you respect my right to express them, as i would respect your right to disagree.