U can't be in a relationship and u talk and act like someone who is not. Then u are a total flirt. U are in a relationship, u call everyone my love, my dear and so on and see nothing to it. U chat and say flirty and naughty things and u see nothing in it. U say I love u to a guy or lady and u still are not dating him/her... U go out to wine and dine and receive pecks or minor kiss and u still see nothing wrong with it. U accept and send romantic text and u see nothing wrong in it and so on...... There are so many ways u cheat ur spouse, its not only when u sleep with someone that u have cheated, ur relationship with ppl of the opposite sex matters a lot and it speaks a lot about whom u are and people will always treat u according to how u project urself. Don't go about feeding people's head with idea's when u know u have someone serious and later u say, it was just for fun. Being flirty when u are into a relationship only means u are as half cheap as u can be even without u knowing u. Respect yourself at all times so people will give u the respect u deserve. Don't do things that will be suggestive. Always draw the line and there is nothing like am a jovial or friendly person. It is what u project that determines ur value. Be nice and friendly but be mature and reasonable and make your status clear and keep to it. Most people read meaning into things and u shud be careful what u say or do around people of the opposite sex.. I love u all