Obedience to Parents
haris 2012/10/14 05:54
haris 2012/10/14 05:54
The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam)said:
“He who arises in the morning as obedient to both parents for the pleasure of Allah, then Allah opens out two doors of Paradise for him. If he has a single parent, a single door is opened for him. If he arises in the morning as a disobedient child to his parents, two doors of Hell are opened out to him and if there is one parent then one door is opened out.†A certain person asked, “Even if the parents are cruel to him or oppress him?†He (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) replied, “Even if they oppress him! Even if they oppress him! Even if they oppress him!†[Bayhaqi; Sha’bil Imaan]
Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) has left no room for us to be disrespectful or disobedient to our parents. Only if they command us to go against any specific injunction of Allah’s are we allowed (in fact, required) to respectfully disobey them. We are in all other matters to bow down to their will and try to please them for the sake of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala).
If we adopt this behaviour because Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) asks us to, then our reward is with Him. It is He who will reward us and He is the best of bestowers.
When you wake up in the morning ask yourself, would Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) rate you as a child who is obedient to his/her parents or disobedient?
“He who arises in the morning as obedient to both parents for the pleasure of Allah, then Allah opens out two doors of Paradise for him. If he has a single parent, a single door is opened for him. If he arises in the morning as a disobedient child to his parents, two doors of Hell are opened out to him and if there is one parent then one door is opened out.†A certain person asked, “Even if the parents are cruel to him or oppress him?†He (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) replied, “Even if they oppress him! Even if they oppress him! Even if they oppress him!†[Bayhaqi; Sha’bil Imaan]
Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) has left no room for us to be disrespectful or disobedient to our parents. Only if they command us to go against any specific injunction of Allah’s are we allowed (in fact, required) to respectfully disobey them. We are in all other matters to bow down to their will and try to please them for the sake of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala).
If we adopt this behaviour because Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) asks us to, then our reward is with Him. It is He who will reward us and He is the best of bestowers.
When you wake up in the morning ask yourself, would Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) rate you as a child who is obedient to his/her parents or disobedient?
Spoon 2012/10/14 06:52
ummm wldnt u respect ur parents purely because they the 1s that brought u into this world? obey to a point but not if they still trying to control as ur adult thats when its YOUR life to live u still can respect them without obeying them
ummm wldnt u respect ur parents purely because they the 1s that brought u into this world? obey to a point but not if they still trying to control as ur adult thats when its YOUR life to live u still can respect them without obeying them
KingFISHER 2012/10/14 08:26
I obey ma parents,love ma parents and care ma parents.( Rabbir hum huma kama rabbayani sagira. )
I obey ma parents,love ma parents and care ma parents.( Rabbir hum huma kama rabbayani sagira. )
saahir 2012/10/14 14:09
Meaning: 'O' My Lord, Have mercy on both of them (my parents) as they had mercy on me to brought me up, when I was small (in my child-hood)
KingFISHER: I obey ma parents,love ma parents and care ma parents.( Rabbir hum huma kama rabbayani sagira. )
Meaning: 'O' My Lord, Have mercy on both of them (my parents) as they had mercy on me to brought me up, when I was small (in my child-hood)
jay6600 2012/10/14 15:08
ive obeyed my parents and elder family always .no religion involved whatsoever
ive obeyed my parents and elder family always .no religion involved whatsoever
haris 2012/10/15 10:38
[b]Quick Onset of Punishment
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The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Allah forgives all sins of those whom He pleases except disobedience to parents. It (punishment) is swiftly meted out to him in this world prior to his death.†[Bayhaqi]
Beware of putting your desires before your parents’ wishes. Honour and obey them keeping Allah’s Pleasure in mind. There’s an eternity waiting for you in Paradise (inshaAllah) for the fulfillment of your desires.
[b]Quick Onset of Punishment
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The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Allah forgives all sins of those whom He pleases except disobedience to parents. It (punishment) is swiftly meted out to him in this world prior to his death.†[Bayhaqi]
Beware of putting your desires before your parents’ wishes. Honour and obey them keeping Allah’s Pleasure in mind. There’s an eternity waiting for you in Paradise (inshaAllah) for the fulfillment of your desires.
Jihad4u 2012/10/16 13:20
تعليم عقيدة أهل السنّة والجماعة كما قررها الأئمة الأربعة. (عليكم بالجماعة
واياكم والÙرقة) ندعو بلزوم الجماعة ونبذ الÙرقة، وترسيخ عقيدة أهل السنة
والجماعة المجمع عليها. قال الØاÙظ ابن Øجر ÙÙŠ الÙØªØ "Ùمعتقد سل٠الأئمة
وعلماء السنة من الخل٠أن الله منزه عن الØركة والتØول والØلول ليس كمثله شىء"
ونقل إجماع أهل السنة على تنزيه الله عن المكان والØركة والسكون الإمام المقدم
أبو منصور البغدادي ÙÙŠ الÙرق بين الÙرق. الله موجود بلا مكان، مهما تصورت
ببالك Ùالله لا يشبه ذلك
تعليم عقيدة أهل السنّة والجماعة كما قررها الأئمة الأربعة. (عليكم بالجماعة
واياكم والÙرقة) ندعو بلزوم الجماعة ونبذ الÙرقة، وترسيخ عقيدة أهل السنة
والجماعة المجمع عليها. قال الØاÙظ ابن Øجر ÙÙŠ الÙØªØ "Ùمعتقد سل٠الأئمة
وعلماء السنة من الخل٠أن الله منزه عن الØركة والتØول والØلول ليس كمثله شىء"
ونقل إجماع أهل السنة على تنزيه الله عن المكان والØركة والسكون الإمام المقدم
أبو منصور البغدادي ÙÙŠ الÙرق بين الÙرق. الله موجود بلا مكان، مهما تصورت
ببالك Ùالله لا يشبه ذلك
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